Frequently Asked Questions

Don’t be afraid to ask questions! We have tried to cover the many queries others have asked and ones we anticipate that you may have while you browse Holy Bedroom. Please check the below and if your questions isn’t answered, get in contact with the team and we (usually Grace) will get back to you ASAP.


Are orders shipped discreetly?

Yes! Rest assured that all orders will arrive in plain packaging. We do not have any mention of the type of product or even Holy Bedroom on our deliveries. We guarantee complete discreetness with every order.

What forms of payment do you accept?

We are able to accept PayPal and card payments via Stripe.

How long does it take to dispatch orders?

We dispatch all orders made before 3pm on the same day Monday to Friday. Late Friday and weekend orders are dispatched first thing on Monday morning.

How much does delivery cost?

Delivery costs depend on the products included in your order, service selected and your location. See the details here.

When will my order arrive?

Most UK orders should arrive within 3 working days.

Do you ship internationally?

We are able to ship orders across the UK and Europe. See here for details.

Can non-Christians order from the site?

Holy Bedroom welcomes everyone to shop from our wide range of high quality sexual toys, aids and products. While we specifically created this site to cater to the needs of married Christian couples, everyone is able to freely browse and order here.


What is your returns policy?

We accept returns for all faulty items and items which are in new, unused condition. Contact us regarding your return requests within 30 days of your order –

Can I return faulty items?

Yes. Get in touch within 30 days of your order –

Can I return used items?

We are unable to accept any returns for products that have been opened and/or used, unless they arrived faulty.


Why isn’t my sex toy working?

Usually batteries are the problem. Check that you are using new, non-rechargeable batteries which are the right way around.

Also, be sure that any screws are secured tightly and springs are fully connected to batteries. If you have a rechargeable toy, check that it is fully charged first.

Why do you/don’t you stock X?

We carefully considered every single one of the products that feature on Holy Bedroom to ensure that customers are able to shop for sexual products which are:

  1. High quality
  2. Value for money
  3. Suitable for Christian couples

We believe that we meet this criteria across our product catalogue, thanks to biblical guidance, extensive research and our personal discretion.

From time to time we add and remove products from Holy Bedroom, so ensure that you are signed up to our newsletter to receive notifications about new product releases, and sakes on clearance items.

Do you sell lingerie?

We don’t currently stock lingerie at Holy Bedroom.  

Christian Sex

What makes a sex toy ‘Christian’?

Put simply, there are no manmade sexual product which are inherently ‘Christian’. However, God created sex and he intended for it to be an amazingly pleasurable experience. Sex toys are products that are able to enhance and add new elements to your intimate time with your spouse.

It’s easier to determine the products that are not Christian. At Holy Bedroom you will find no:

  • Pornography or products which display nudity on real bodies
  • Degrading items
  • Products that undermine marriage
  • Products that may cause harm, whether physical or emotional

Note that some product names or usage descriptions may be less tasteful than we would like, but as we do not manufacture the products found at Holy Bedroom, the best we can do is to keep this to an absolute minimum.

God blessed us with freedom. We have no control over how our customers use the products sold at Holy Bedroom once they arrive, but we have faith that all are able to enjoy the pleasure of beautiful intimacy without resorting to idolatry and sinful behaviour.

We hope to answer many questions about Christian sexuality on our blog, newsletters and if you get in contact with us too.

Is X allowed in Christian sex?

Every single sexual act has been debated on its permissibility. Depending on what research you stumble upon, you may have very different ideas about what can happen within the confines of a married Christian couple’s bedroom.

For example, there are certainly those that are fully against oral sex, while we strongly believe it’s both and a fantastic way for you and your wife to connect during your intimate time with one another.

Ultimately there is a great deal of freedom. It comes down to whether the activity – a sacred act gifted to us by God – is mutually enjoyed together within the context of your monogamous union.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Jesus Christ.”   Philippians 2:3-5.